How to Remove Someone from Facebook Close Friends List


Adding someone to your Facebook close friends list means that you’ll see all of their posts. And while you may be good friends with someone in real life, they may post on Facebook so much that it feels like they take over your feed, or you may not care for the content they post. No matter the reason, Facebook makes it easy to remove someone from your close friends list on the platform. The only catch is that you can’t remove someone from your Facebook close friends list in the Facebook mobile app, and you have to remove them through the Facebook website.

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Steps to Remove Someone from Facebook Close Friends List

  1. Open a web browser, navigate to, and then log in to your Facebook account if prompted. You’ll land on your Facebook home screen. Again, you can only view your full list of close friends on Facebook through the Facebook website and not through the Facebook mobile app for iPhone, iPad and Android.
  2. Find your list of Facebook shortcuts in the menu on the left side of the screen, and then click “See All” in this list. You’ll land on a menu screen.
Find your list of Facebook shortcuts in the menu on the left side of the screen, and then click See All in this list.

  1. Click “Friends” in this menu. Your Facebook Friends menu opens.
Click Friends.

  1. Click “Custom Lists.” The Custom Lists menu is shown.
Click Custom Lists.

  1. Click “Close Friends.” Your Facebook Close Friends list is displayed.
Click Close Friends.

  1. Find the person you want to remove from your Facebook close friends list, and then click the “X” in the box associated with that person. That individual will be removed from your Facebook close friends list immediately.
Find the person you want to remove from your Facebook close friends list.

Why to Consider Removing Someone from Facebook Close Friends List

1. Drifting Apart

People often form close friendships during specific life stages, like school or work. As time passes, priorities change, causing some friends to drift apart. This natural progression leads to diminished communication and shared experiences. The once close bond might weaken, and maintaining the “close friends” status on Facebook could feel unnecessary. In these cases, updating the list better reflects current relationships.

2. Inappropriate Content

Social media users share various content types, reflecting their interests, opinions, and experiences. Occasionally, a close friend might post material that others find offensive, controversial, or annoying. Excessive sharing of political views, offensive jokes, or repetitive self-promotion may lead users to reconsider their close friends list. Removing someone from this list can help limit unwanted content exposure without unfriending them entirely.

3. Privacy Concerns

In the digital age, privacy is a growing concern for many. Sharing personal information, photos, or updates with a select group helps maintain control over one’s online presence. Some users want to restrict sensitive content access to their inner circle, consisting of family and trusted friends. Removing individuals from the Facebook close friends list enables better privacy management and reduced vulnerability to potential online risks.

4. Life Changes

Major life events, like moving to a new city, starting a family, or changing careers, impact relationships. As people embark on new adventures, their social circles shift to include new connections. Updating the close friends list to reflect current relationships ensures relevant content reaches the intended audience. This adjustment acknowledges the evolving nature of friendships, fostering more meaningful connections.

5. Conflicts or Disagreements

Disagreements and misunderstandings occur in any relationship. Sometimes, these conflicts escalate, causing a rift between friends. In the aftermath, users might choose to limit their interactions with the other party, including online. Removing someone from the Facebook close friends list can be a way to establish boundaries and mitigate further conflict without severing the connection completely.

6. Social Media Detox

With the increasing awareness of social media’s impact on mental health, some users embark on a “digital detox.” This process often includes reducing online connections and focusing on more meaningful relationships. By refining their close friends list, users can maintain a smaller, more supportive online community. This approach helps promote a healthier, more balanced social media experience.

7. Misunderstandings

Occasionally, users mistakenly add someone to their close friends list or overlook an existing entry. Upon discovering the error, they may decide to remove the individual to maintain an accurate representation of their close connections. This adjustment ensures that the Facebook close friends list aligns with the user’s intentions and current relationships.

8. Change in Relationship Status

Romantic relationships sometimes end, causing former partners to redefine their connection. In these instances, removing the person from the Facebook close friends list might be a step towards healing and moving forward. This action can limit the emotional impact of seeing the ex-partner’s updates and help establish new boundaries.

9. Professional Reasons

Balancing personal and professional relationships on social media can be challenging. Users may prefer to keep their close friends list exclusive to their personal lives, avoiding potential workplace conflicts. Removing colleagues from the Facebook close friends list allows users to maintain separate spheres for personal and professional interactions.

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